{"id":977,"date":"2024-11-21T00:47:09","date_gmt":"2024-11-21T00:47:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/momentsunfolded.com\/?p=977"},"modified":"2024-11-21T00:47:12","modified_gmt":"2024-11-21T00:47:12","slug":"my-love-story-with-my-husband-in-which-i-lost-him-for-17-years-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/momentsunfolded.com\/archives\/977","title":{"rendered":"My Love Story with My Husband, in Which I Lost Him for 17 Years"},"content":{"rendered":"
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On their 50th wedding anniversary, Tina and Patrick stand side by side, celebrating a love story marked by a heart-wrenching 17-year separation. From teenage sweethearts to a miraculous reunion, their journey defies belief, proving that true love endures even the longest, most unexpected distances.\n
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I’m Tina. Today, at 68, I’m standing in a room filled with laughter, surrounded by family and friends, all here to celebrate my husband, Patrick, and me.\n\n

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A happy elderly couple\n\n\n

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It’s our 50th wedding anniversary, a milestone that feels surreal, considering the path we took to get here. Our life together sounds like a story \u2014 sometimes like a dream, and other times, like a nightmare I’d never wish on anyone. But every bit of it is true.\n\n

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We were just kids when I first met him. I was barely fifteen, and still figuring out how to find my way around my new high school. My family had moved across the state that summer and everything felt strange and out of place.\n\n

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A high school student\n\n\n

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On my first day, I found myself lost, looking for my math class. As I stumbled down the hallway, I felt a sudden shove from behind, and my books went flying. A group of girls laughed, their voices cold and mocking.\n\n

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“Guess you didn’t see that coming, huh?” one of them sneered.\n\n

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I bent down, feeling my face burn, wishing I could disappear. Just then, a voice cut through the noise.\n\n

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Kids bullying a girl\n\n\n

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“Hey, leave her alone.” I looked up to see a tall boy with shaggy brown hair and a serious look in his eye. “Pick on someone else,” he added, not even looking at the girls. He bent down, handed me my book, and smiled. “You okay?”\n\n

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I nodded, swallowing hard. “Yeah. Thanks.”\n\n

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The girls walked off, muttering, and he turned back to me. “I’m Patrick,” he said, extending a hand.\n\n

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High school sweethearts\n\n\n

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“Tina,” I managed, feeling a nervous smile creep up.\n\n

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“Well, Tina, math class is this way. Mind if I walk you there?”\n\n

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I shook my head, trying to hide my relief. “I’d like that.”\n\n

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From that day on, we were inseparable. Patrick was everything I wasn’t \u2014 bold, confident, and a little bit reckless.\n\n

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A high school couple\n\n\n

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At eighteen, we were married. It was a simple ceremony \u2014 just us, our families, and a few friends in a little white chapel in town. I wore a hand-sewn dress that my mother had stayed up nights to finish, and Patrick wore his father’s suit, a little too big at the shoulders. When he took my hand at the altar, he squeezed it so tightly that I thought he’d never let go.\n\n

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“You sure you want to do this?” he whispered with a grin.\n\n

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A bride kissing the groom\n\n\n

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“Only if you do,” I whispered back, squeezing his hand right back.\n\n

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Not long after, we found out I was pregnant. Patrick was overjoyed, lifting me up and spinning me around, saying he’d build a crib with his own two hands. We didn’t have much, but that didn’t matter to him.\n\n

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Around the time we had our daughter, Patrick enlisted in the army. It was hard saying goodbye, harder than anything I’d done. But he promised me he’d be back soon.\n\n

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A wife kissing her husband goodbye\n\n\n

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“I’ll write every week,” he said, holding me close. “And I’ll count down the days.”\n\n

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Patrick came home when he was twenty-two. I’ll never forget that day, the way he swept me up in his arms, our daughter giggling in his lap as we sat in the backyard, feeling like our life was finally beginning.\n\n

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A young man and his daughter\n\n\n

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A week later, he planned a trip with his old army buddies up to the mountains. Just a short getaway, he said. Something to clear his head. “Promise I won’t be long,” he told me, kissing me on the forehead as he packed up.\n\n

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But he never came back.\n\n

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A lone man on a hike\n\n\n

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Days turned into weeks, and no one had heard from him. My heart felt like it was tearing in two, with worry gnawing at me every second. People came from all over to help search. They scoured the trails, combed through forests, and even brought in dogs. But there was no sign of him.\n\n

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One day, a police officer came to my door, hat in hand, looking down at the ground.\n\n

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“We think\u2026 there might’ve been an avalanche,” he said quietly. “We’re not giving up, but\u2026 it doesn’t look good.”\n\n

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A policeman delivering bad news\n\n\n

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I stood in the doorway, clutching the frame, my breath gone, my mind spinning. I couldn’t bring myself to believe it, even as people around me slowly started saying things like “gone” and “lost forever.”\n\n

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At 36, I was a mother to a teenage daughter and slowly finding ways to smile again. Patrick had been gone for nearly 15 years, and while part of me held on to a sliver of hope, I knew life had to keep moving.\n\n

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A woman watching sunset\n\n\n

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Eventually, I met someone new. His name was Tom, and he was kind, patient, and had a warm way of making people feel at ease. He knew about Patrick \u2014 everyone in town did \u2014 but he didn’t mind. He said he’d wait as long as I needed.\n\n

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“You take your time, Tina,” he’d say with a soft smile. “I’m not here to replace anyone.”\n\n

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A man consoling a woman\n\n\n

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Over time, his patience wore down my defenses, and we built a quiet, happy life together. A few years later, we welcomed a son, Danny. Watching my children grow brought joy into my heart again, and while Patrick was never far from my thoughts, I felt at peace with the family I had.\n\n

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Three years later, at 39, Tom and I decided to get married. Our son was still a toddler, and my daughter, grown and hopeful for her mom, insisted it was time. “You deserve happiness, Mom,” she’d say. And maybe she was right.\n\n

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A daughter consoling her mother\n\n\n

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It was a simple ceremony in the backyard, with only close friends and family. I was inside, putting on my dress and feeling the day’s excitement settle over me, when I heard a strange sound from outside \u2014 a siren, slowing down.\n\n

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My heart pounded as I stepped out to see what was going on. A police car was parked at the curb, and out of the passenger side, I saw him. Thin, unsteady, and pale as a ghost, Patrick.\n\n

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A pale man in a police car\n\n\n

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My breath caught as I walked forward, hands shaking. He stood there, barely able to meet my eyes. After a long, painful silence, he whispered, “Hello, Tina.” His voice was cracked, and his eyes glistened with tears.\n\n

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“Patrick\u2026” I managed, my voice choked. The world seemed to tilt, the voices behind me fading to nothing. For a moment, it felt as if the years had rolled back, and I was eighteen again, looking at the only boy I’d ever loved.\n\n

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a shocked bride in her backyard\n\n\n

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He took a step toward me, swaying, and I ran to catch him. Tears filled my eyes as I held him up, my heart torn open. Tom and our families watched in silence as I brought him inside, away from the murmurs and stares.\n\n

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After Patrick regained some strength, we sat down together, and he began to tell his story. He spoke haltingly, his words slow and heavy. He’d gone up the mountain that day with his friends, just like he’d said he would. But an accident happened. He slipped, fell, and when he woke up, he couldn’t remember anything.\n\n

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A man fallen off a cliff\n\n\n

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“There was\u2026 a woman,” he said quietly. “She found me. She told me\u2026 I was her husband. I believed her, Tina. I thought that was my life.”\n\n

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My heart clenched as he spoke, his voice breaking. He’d lived with her in a cabin, isolated from the world, with no memory of me, of our daughter, or of our life together. Then, one day, his memory came back, and he made his way to the nearest police station, finally remembering his real life.\n\n

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“It took me a while to find you,” he said, his hands trembling. “But I never stopped trying.”\n\n

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It was all too much\u2014love, anger, relief, and shock tangled up inside me. I held his hand, tears spilling down my cheeks. That night, I made a hard decision, and I went to Tom. “I’m sorry,” I whispered, my voice barely holding steady. He understood, even if it broke his heart.\n\n

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In the months that followed, Patrick and I tried to rebuild a life together. He was physically frail and emotionally distant, still haunted by memories of his time away. I stood by him through physical therapy, doctor’s visits, and counseling. Our daughter, grown now, watched cautiously, letting her heart heal slowly, just as I was.\n\n

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Two years after Patrick returned, we welcomed a new baby boy, little Sam. Holding him in my arms felt like a piece of us had been restored, something solid and hopeful.\n\n

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I could see the joy in Patrick’s eyes, the promise of a new beginning after so many years of heartache. Our family felt whole again, in a way I never thought possible.\n\n

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Today, I look around at my family, gathered in our home to celebrate 50 years of a life so much stranger and deeper than I’d ever dreamed. Friends, family, and laughter fill every corner of the house. There are smiles, stories, and memories shared.\n\n

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A woman toasting at a party\n\n\n

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As I sit beside Patrick, I feel his hand on mine, steady and strong, and I smile. It hasn’t been a simple road, not by any means. But together, we made it, through loss, love, and a journey that brought him back to me.\n\n

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And in the end, isn’t that what love is for? To hold on, even when everything else tells you to let go.\n\n

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A happy family\n\n\n

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.\n\n

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The author and publisher make no claims to the accuracy of events or the portrayal of characters and are not liable for any misinterpretation. This story is provided \u201cas is,\u201d and any opinions expressed are those of the characters and do not reflect the views of the author or publisher.\n\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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